Do Guys Really like Shorter women ?

Every man has a preference, or an ideal, in his mind as to what he desires in a woman. He may desire a certain height, a certain weight or shape, a particular hair color, or certain personality traits. Men throughout the world have longed for almost every attribute in every woman. However, down through the ages, a popular and encompassing belief has arisen: that men prefer women who they can provide for, who are smaller and weaker than them, who are more demure and more proper, and who acknowledge this difference.

So now the question arises: do men prefer girls of below average height? This is a loaded question, as with the question of beauty and the question of slenderness. It is, however, an accurate one, considering how strongly men favor protectability from their women. A shorter stature does indeed help a man to feel stronger, more masculine, and more able-bodied. I would submit that this is not what men look for in a woman.

Shape. Men have many variations in their preference for shape, but the underlying factor is how the woman presents her shape. Men like women who show off their curves, not necessarily in a trashy or evocative way, but with clothing that fits properly, proper posture and full movement of their bodies. Many women who are self concious limit the movements in their bodies, looking strained and awkward. The key is not so much to be graceful, but to be free with your movements, enjoying a flick of your wrist, crossing your legs freely on the couch, or rolling around with a child on the floor, without thought as to how you appear. Women who are not too self-aware draw admiration of their free movements and ready laughter.

Sexuality. Men love women who love to have sex. If you are just dating, or are not in a long-term relationship, you can express sexuality in other forms. Men love women who are free (not loose) with their bodies and have and know their own boundaries. If you are a prude, be a prude! But don’t scrunch up your shoulders, cross your arms in front of your chest and turn away. Just playfully hit the guy and, laughing, say “No!” That’s it. Don’t make a large issue out of it when it’s not. Keep your body comfortable and playful, remembering that self confidence is the most attractive quality for you to have, whether or not you accompany this with physical touch.

Feminity. Men love women to be women. Don’t think you’re being too girly or too sexy when you dress up. Remember, if you are too self aware or uncomfortable, this can easily ruin the effect of a beautiful outfit. If you don’t feel comfortable expressing yourself in your clothing, change your clothing. Do not, for the sake of fashion, act like a shy, stand-offish fashionista. You’d be much more appealing being a self-confident hobo who loves herself.

Now we understand that, even though a shorter height may appeal to a man, unless he is short himself, this is not likely to be important criteria for him. Men love women who love their own shape, whatever shape that is (and change it if they don’t, rather than complaining in public about it). They love women who express their sexuality, or lack of it, freely and easily, without seeming to take themselves too seriously. And men love women who are feminine, whether you’re a bright-eyed, sporty girl or a dressed-to-the-nines girly girl. This is one area where size does not matter.

Do Tall Men Prefer Short Women

Is it really true? Tall Men Prefer Short Women? Are all the short women with the tall men? Are the tall men always with a short woman? I don’t know; maybe a tall woman sees only what she expects to see in the world of meeting men. Tall women seem to have made this observation more than shorter women, when it comes to meeting men.

You can learn a lot about what tall women think by reading the “tall quotes” pages of tallwomen.org. My experience is that usually, tall men are with tall women, and…short women are with short men. In fact, I see this all the time: A short man with an even shorter woman! Even if he’s around 5-5, his woman is almost always shorter!

Quite often I see really tall women with even taller men. However, I have indeed seen tall men with their arms around a pint-sized woman. According to many tall women who post on the tall quotes pages, tall men have a preference for short women for one notable reason.

Tall men feel threatened by tall women, even if the tall woman isn’t as tall as he is.

A number of posts make this claim. Many of the claims are based on first-hand experience by very tall women who get rejected by even taller men. The theory is that, for example, a man who’s 6-2 doesn’t quite feel he’s the protector or superior in the relationship, if his woman is only three inches shorter, let alone equal in height.

But his protector instinct really kicks in if his girlfriend is 5-5 or 5-3. But what if she has a black belt inkarate or is a competitive power lifter? Will the tall man feel threatened and go back to that lanky 5-11 woman who asked him out?

Maybe this phenomenon is true in some cases; that the protector instinct is dismantled by a woman who’s as tall as most men. But what about the possibility that a 6-3 man was drawn to a 5-3 woman because of her smile, eyes and laugh — three items that often draw a man to a woman in the first place? What if that short little thing just happens to have common interests with that tall guy? What if there’s chemistry, and the height difference is just a coincidence?

WHAT IF…that tall man, whom the tall women think is theirs, actually judges that short woman by what’s inside her?

According to the posts, some tall women believe that the tall men, indeed, belong to them because it’s very hard for them to get boyfriends; whereas, short women can have their pick because even a short man of 5-7 wouldn’t feel “intimidated” by a woman of 5-3. As one poster says, “Short women have a sea of men to choose from, and we don’t.”

There is this feeling that the short girls “take” the tall men away from the tall women. I’m 5-8, and I’ll be honest with you: The ideal height for me, in a man, is 6-2. But this has nothing to do with my height. If I were 5-3, I’d still want him to be 6-2. If I were six feet (oh, how I wish !), I’d STILL want him to be 6-2, or maybe 6-3. But 6-4 and over is just too big, not relative to my size, but just in general. Keep in mind, too, that many men add an inch or two to their height when giving it out.